You cannot avoid pain but you can choose to overcome it - Paolo Coelho
And I so agree that you really can not avoid it, as you do not know when it is coming. You can not even prepare for it.
Don't you wish you know how painful it is going to be so you could at least get ready for it?
Would anyone be ready of the pain of giving birth to a lifeless baby? And at the first place..can you call it “giving birth” - while birth is antonym of death?
We can not avoid pain..
But I hope we can overcome it as soon as possible.
I wish my friend will find comfort in knowing that we are here for them.